“Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life..

You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts.

Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love.”

I learned a lesson from the recent incident.

• Don't talk if you don't know what to talk.
• Don't talk if you are talking something you don't know.
• Don't talk if you are out of mind.
• Don't talk for the sake of "talk".
• Don't talk when you are emotional.

I strongly believe the above mentioned is important to life. It will hurt both parties if the word simply burst out from no way when you are out of control.

I am glad that I succeeded to control myself for not doing something that might badly hurt to others.

As long as you know or think it is not a right time to talk. My lesson tells me DON'T TALK.

Life is unpredictable! Be dare to love if you want to love.

Anything can happen in life.








China earth quake proved life is short and unpredictable! Love as you can.